On Dating Small Town Guys
It began at an oriental supermarket, I guess,
with a jar of brined pigs' feet. I guess there
was something exotic about stewing the "throw
away" part of the pig like eating a fish head with
the eyeballs still filmy and vigilant using chopsticks
to snatch the steamed pupil right out of the socket.
I guess you thought about bringing me home
when I told you that I knew how to prepare pigs'
feet in sweet sauce with tea eggs. I guess you
wanted to introduce me to your father as your
new girlfriend when I told you that I also ate
the skin and the tendons. I guess you wanted
to believe that back in China, my mother fed us
gobs of pigs' feet every night. That we lined the
dinner table with old newspapers on which we'd
spit out toenails and tiny bones.
Lantern Review: A Journal of Asian American Poetry
Issue 1 | June 2010 | pp 16